ok, sorry, was looking at the thread from my phone
i can see you picture better now on my pc.
you need another one of these gaskets-
http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/Muffler-...MRA9-/281261650414?hash=item417c8031ee&_uhb=1
the 2x bolts that hold your exhaust to the head, might have been over tightened at one stage?
they have bent the mounting flange in on the sides.
it will lessen the clamping force on the centre section
you might get away with dropping the exhaust and bending the 2 outer edges of the flange back away from the head.
this will help make the sealing face flat and will mount up flush to the head better.
even run a file across the face to help flatten it off.
looks like the bike has been running a bit rich too ?
try the needle clip in the 2nd notch down, it will lean it a out little, and not spit as much oil etc