well, okk..it is pretty harsh but you can talk this sorta crap behind a screen but i wonder if you would say this in a workplace around a bunch of blokes..i think you would have no one to talk to after about half hour..i say this to a kid at my school who is leaving at the end of the year and if he keeps going the way he is he wont go far..eg-he gets a saturday detention and his mum makes an excuse (hes 16)..cop the punishment and get over it.